Q. I have a good friend who uses an online dating site. Last year she was fooled into sending money to someone in Ghana. I'm afraid she is falling victim to another scammer. She is wrapped up in the fantasy created by this person. I and other friends have tried to convince her she is being misled again. She won't hear it. What can I do to help her see the light? She is a wonderful friend who deserves to find love. I cannot stand to watch her waste her money this way. —James in Atlanta, listening on WSB 750 AM