Donna Herter’s son, Christian Bowers, was lonely. He has Down syndrome and the 24-year-old had difficulty making friends after he left high school. Making friends as an adult is tough, so his mother took to Facebook. The comments went wild, and thousands of people offered to spend time with Christian with no payment necessary. And that was just the beginning.
PSA: Stop sharing your phone’s address book with apps that ask for it

Whether posting a headshot on your LinkedIn profile or uploading a photo to your favorite social media platform, you want to look your best. Anybody can use a camera, but it takes some practice to take a good shot. Tap or click here for five simple tricks to look better in family photos and selfies.
It’s a given that you’re giving up a degree of privacy when using social media. You’re putting your name and photos out there for anyone to see, not to mention any personal information you include in your profile and comments. And your clicks and likes are all being tracked.
When you create an account with Facebook, Instagram or Twitter, you’re asked if you’d like to sync your contacts to find friends, family and business associates more easily. Here’s why you should stop doing that right now, brought to you by our sponsor, TotalAV.
Connecting with people on social media
How do you find the people you want to connect with on social media? You can search for their names or add them through mutual friends. But the easiest way is to share your contacts from your phone and let the platform find them for you.
It seems like a good idea, right? What’s the harm?
You’re giving more than just their names when you upload your contacts. You’re sharing the information you have on them with the social network, which can include their email addresses and phone numbers. The platform probably already has this information for those on social media. But it might not!
Even worse, your contacts who don’t use social media now have their information exposed. On top of all that, social networks use this information to target them with ads and suggestions.
You can stop sharing contacts to prevent your future phone book entries from being revealed. You can also delete previously uploaded contacts. We’ll show you how to do it all.
RELATED: Opt-Out Tuesday: How to remove your info from Apollo.io
Stop sharing contacts with Facebook
Facebook continuously uploads your contacts from each device where you’re using the app. You’ll have to repeat the following steps for each device. Here’s how:
The internet's not all bad
Casino cyberattack, drugs on FB Marketplace & Google Flights refunds
Plus, for over a decade, twin sisters Madison and Christine were haunted by a cyberstalker who shared their nude photos with loved ones. They share their journey to justice. Fishy reviews on aspartame, a ChatGPT diagnosis tale, and putting a halt to Facebook’s data harvest for AI.
Simple trick to spot fake reviews on Amazon
Plus, misdial 911? Hold the phone – I’ll explain why it’s costly to hang up. Allie has ways to stake your claim in Facebook’s $725 million settlement, and don’t miss Matt’s ridiculous story about a naked Instagram cat. And there’s also a hilarious joke!
September 16th, 2023
A cyberattack has impacted all MGM casinos and resorts nationwide — it all started with a 10-minute phone call. A boy gets hope from ChatGPT after years of chronic pain. Also, Sony is giving its old robot dogs foster care, and drugs are being sold on Facebook Marketplace. All that and much more, plus all your calls and questions.
Steve Jobs' uncashed check, ChatGPT job heist & dead phone hacks
Plus, be careful with QR codes. Clever new scams are spreading fast. How much is $1,000 worth of Apple shares in 1998 worth today? (Hint: It’s a lot!). A heartwarming Facebook story, fun ChatGPT-powered tools, video game speedruns and how to upgrade your browser with an underrated feature.
Roblox scam targets kids, employee-tracking shocker & text message hack
Plus, deepfake videos are spreading — how to spot them. Lost kids found through video doorbells, dozens fall for Facebook scam, and ways to hide your phone number.
Prime Day results, Ring Doorbell drama & blackout survival tips
Plus, Jon Keegan, an Investigative Data Journalist for The Markup, joined me to talk about personalized ads — and how Facebook, Google, and Amazon know precisely what you want. I dive into “day in the life” TikTok vids and give advice on spy-detecting tech.
July 15th, 2023
In this week’s show, are we alone? I chat with Dr. Seth Shostak, Senior Astronomer for the SETI Institute, about all things extraterrestrial. Plus, a man banned from Facebook sues to regain access to his account — and wins. Google Photos now recognizes people from behind, a Twitch streamer’s car is set on fire, and a 16-year-old gamer is the fastest typist alive. That and much more, plus all your calls and questions.
FB marketplace scams, Costco membership crackdown & top-selling eBay stuff
Plus, I talk to Shreya Datta, a tech exec who fell for a scammer. She shared how she lost $450,000. The FTC takes on Publishers Clearing House, Facebook’s new child protection tools, and how to preserve your VHS memories the easy way.
June 17th, 2023
In this week’s show, are we alone? I chat with Dr. Seth Shostak, Senior Astronomer for the SETI Institute, about all things extraterrestrial. Plus, a man banned from Facebook sues to regain access to his account — and wins. Google Photos now recognizes people from behind, a Twitch streamer’s car is set on fire, and a 16-year-old gamer is the fastest typist alive. That and much more, plus all your calls and questions.
Warren Buffet on AI, upload dead people & earn $ online
Plus, got a green thumb? Here are the best smart sprinklers to keep your lawn fresh. Find out who’s selling your data with this genius email trick. Avoid embarrassing edits in shared web docs, an underwater jeep rescue, and a sweet Facebook story.
How to see everything you've done on Facebook
Ready for a blast from the past? In 60 seconds, I’ll show you how to unearth those cringe-worthy likes and comments you’ve left behind.
Health apps exposing secrets, $2M IG influencer scam & Siri's triggering words
Plus, homeowners beware! There’s a sneaky mortgage scam making the rounds. How one gal turned her side hustle doing the laundry into $24K a month, uncover your full Facebook comment history and the tech you never clean … but really should.
Steve Jobs' uncashed check, ChatGPT job heist & dead phone hacks
Plus, be careful with QR codes. Clever new scams are spreading fast. How much is $1,000 worth of Apple shares in 1998 worth today? (Hint: It’s a lot!). A heartwarming Facebook story, fun ChatGPT-powered tools, video game speedruns and how to upgrade your browser with an underrated feature.
Google’s killing passwords, USPS job scams & Nextdoor fights nasty comments
Plus, I talk to a son that needs help deleting his mom’s FB account — she passed away and he doesn’t have the login info. Gen Z gets in on an old phone trend, a bizarre Facebook crime, and five tech tips to cut your energy bill.
Musk's Honest AI, free $ from Facebook & states ban TikTok
Plus, are you being stalked online? Forensic expert Ricoh Danielson gives tell-tale signs and tools to find the person. Also, why Google went down $57B in one day and Wi-Fi and Bluetooth security gotchas. And, a hidden secret ID on your phone that gives away your private details to anyone and laughs you don’t want to miss.
Woman’s naked pics posted on Facebook, eBike’s deadly dangers & Google Maps hidden tricks
Plus, TikTok’s not the only Communist Chinese app – I’ve got a list of the rest. If you use ChatGPT at work, don’t make this massive mistake. That’s not all – DJI’s most advanced drone ever, the apps worth your location data and why burner phones aren’t just for bad guys.
Deepfake CEO scam, spot fake reviews & Marvel superhero workout app
Plus, misdial 911? Hold the phone – I’ll explain why it’s costly to hang up. Allie has ways to stake your claim in Facebook’s $725 million settlement, and don’t miss Matt’s ridiculous story about a naked Instagram cat. And there’s also a hilarious joke!
AI-generated nudes for sale online, Opera brings free VPN to iOS & how to post on Instagram for a big impact
Plus, PC sales are plummeting. I tell you what that means for the economy. Also, I give the lowdown on ChatGPT’s first slander lawsuit. That’s not all – Silicon Valley employees get a taste of the real world and they’re not liking it. Also, order something online but it didn’t arrive? I share what to do. And does Facebook have your secret info? I have a way to find out. I also talk to a guy who needs a good app to monitor older folks with serious health issues.