Worst things to ask Siri, Alexa and Google Assistant

I use Siri to send texts, put my phone on Do Not Disturb before I record, set meetings and lots more. One time I don’t use it? In an emergency. Luckily, emergencies are few and far between in my life (knock on wood), but I wouldn’t risk it.

Researchers asked voice assistants questions related to cardiac arrest emergencies. Yep, it was a complete disaster. You might think a quick “Hey, Siri” would pull up the instructions quickly and clearly, but that’s absolutely the worst thing to do. 

When someone needs CPR, call 911. Period. Somehow, only nine of the 32 assistants’ responses suggested this critical step, and 88% of responses gave a website where you could read the steps to perform CPR. Really?

🏥 If you need the steps or want to take a refresher course, here’s the link to the Red Cross website. “Stayin’ Alive” by the Bee Gees is an excellent song to sing when doing CPR, as its beats per minute mimic those needed for chest compressions. 

“Baby Shark” by Pinkfong, “Dancing Queen” by ABBA, and “Sweet Home Alabama” by Lynyrd Skynyrd also work.

This got me thinking 

Emergency help isn’t the only time to skip Alexa, Google Assistant or Siri.

Play doctor: You’re better off not asking Siri, Google or Alexa for any medical advice — not just lifesaving advice. Call your doc.

How to hurt someone: Even if you’re kidding! Those chats with Siri or Google Assistant could come back to bite you if you end up on the wrong side of the law. 

Anything that ends up with your mug shot: Don’t ask Alexa where to buy drugs, where to hide a body or anything else suspicious. 

Deal with your money: Cybercriminals can hack into your phone, steal your voice and use it to drain your accounts. Log into your bank’s website or mobile app and call it a day.

“Will I die if I eat this?” If you’re on a hike wondering if the berries you found would make a good snack, voice assistants aren’t reliable sources. There’s conflicting information online about poisonous foods and plants.

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Secure email account sharing without compromising privacy

When you live with someone, you make a heck of a lot of choices together — big choices, like, “Should we sell our house and move to Thailand?” and small choices, like, “Should we buy this new recycling bin?”

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Instagram, chill out

Instagram recently got some privacy tech Facebook’s had for years. You can now block the platforms’ parent company, Meta, from watching what you do once you close Instagram and move on to other apps and sites.

  • Open Instagram, then tap the silhouette (profile icon) in the bottom right corner.
  • Select the three-line More menu > Settings and privacy > Accounts Center.
  • Select Your information and permissions
  • Tap Your activity off Meta technologies. Here, you can see what info IG is getting.
  • For each one, you need to choose Disconnect specific activity.
  • You should also remove your history. Tap the Clear previous activity button to do that.

“Kim, I feel like they could’ve made it easier.” Yes, you’re right. It’s almost like they don’t want you to go through all those steps. 

Is your car revealing your location?

Remember when AirTags first came out? It didn’t take long before creeps started using them to track people. Victims were finding them in their bags, jackets and on their cars, you name it.

Apple finally made changes so that you’ll get an alert if someone is tracking you without your knowledge. Tracking cuts both ways. Yes, the tech got safer — but more people realized how easy it is to follow someone secretly. 

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Privacy how-to: Remove yourself from people search sites the easy way

Data brokers and people search sites are more than just a nuisance; they’re a downright menace. I’ve been sounding the alarm on these digital peeping Toms for years.

Imagine a vast web of data brokers lurking in the shadows, all with one goal: To mine and sell your personal info to anyone flashing cash. 

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👀 For your eyes only

If you have sensitive pics like your driver’s license on your phone, set up a locked folder in Google Photos. 

  • Open the Google Photos app > Utilities > Set up Locked Folder. Follow the on-screen directions to finish up. 

Note: Anything stored there isn’t backed up to the cloud. Wouldn’t be very private that way.

Have an iPhone? You can store secret pics in the Notes app. Open the pic in the Photos app, tap the share icon and select Notes. Go into the note you want to protect, tap the three-dot icon in the upper right corner, then choose Lock.

A deleted blog post proves it: Advertisers are listening to you

Nope, you’re not paranoid. If you feel like your smartphone and speakers are listening to your private chats, it’s because they are. 

In a now-deleted blog post, Cox Media Group revealed it can (and does) gather information from conversations and use it for targeted ads. They thought they were slick by removing the evidence, but we caught all the details. Don’t they know the internet is forever? 

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Privacy: Is it wise to hand over your email and number for discounts?

It’s a savvy shopper’s favorite time of year: Discounts and deals as far as the eye can see.

You’re probably like me — I don’t like paying full price. But is handing over your email address, phone number or even more worth it for a coupon code? Like most things tech, it depends.

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Quick privacy upgrade: Turn your phone to safe mode

All I want for Christmas is to help keep your data safe. The bad news is there are a ton of cybercriminals out there doing their best to stop me.

Apple recently shared the results of a study from MIT on the growing threat of cyberattacks around the globe. A mindblowing 2.6 billion personal records were breached in 2021 and 2022. I’d say it’s time to act if you haven’t already.

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Take back control of your online privacy

Newsflash: Your data is constantly being collected and sold. “Gee, thanks, Kim. I know,” you might be thinking. “What do I do about it?” Lucky for you, I spend a lot of time trying to answer that exact question.

If you’re tired of spam calls, unwanted emails and that nasty feeling of always being tracked, keep reading. I’ve got a simple way to take a massive chunk out of this data collection mess, thanks to our sponsor, Incogni.

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Simple digital privacy step everyone should know about

Data brokers, people search sites and online background check services, oh my. At the end of the day, they all do the same thing — scoop up your personal info and sell it to anyone interested. Marketers are at the top of the list, but scammers can also find your information this way.

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Your car is collecting your personal data, even your sex life

When I read this report, I knew it would be important for you to know even though you do all the right things. You remove the shady apps from your phone and adjust privacy settings on your kid’s smart toys. Heck, you even stop Alexa from saving recorded conversations. You’re all set, right? Just wait until you get into your car.

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Revealed: Shopping apps that collect and sell the most data

Spoiler: They are all super data-hungry. New research dove deep into shopping apps that collect sensitive consumer data. It found that 75% of the apps in the study share user data with third parties. Some even share this data with outsiders without informing you. Lovely. 

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How to dig up dirt about yourself online

You know by now you should keep the private things in life off the internet. Your middle name, job, city, pet’s name, the school you went to, your spouse’s name, the ages of your kids, your shoe size — the details a scammer or hacker would love to have.

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Before you buy holiday gifts, check this list for tech snoops

Once Christmas music starts playing, the trees go up and the wish lists are compiled, I know an email I’ll get: Mozilla’s latest warning about popular tech gifts that are just awful when it comes to privacy.

This year’s *Privacy Not Included guide ranks over 150 gadgets across different categories by what data they collect and what they do with it. Mozilla does a great job at these lists, for sure.

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The worst money apps for your data revealed

I can’t remember the last time I went into a bank. No reason to now that I do it all from my phone. We trust banking apps to keep our financial info safe and secure — but what about privacy? Oh yeah, that.

Merchant Machine reviewed the privacy policies of today’s top banking and finance apps. Researchers found that the 20 worst offenders take an average of 20 unique types of data. Major yikes.

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Your smart assistant is listening, but does that impact the ads you see?

Think of everything you do online and in real life that says something about who you are. Your likes, clicks, hobbies and activities all add to the wealth of data points companies already have on you.

What about your conversations with Alexa or Siri? How is that data used? Let’s take a deep look at how they use your conversations to create profiles.

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Use a Ring doorbell cam? You can opt out of sending videos straight to police

Concerned about privacy? You’re not alone. More people are raising eyebrows about who has access to their data, especially when it comes to surveillance cameras like Ring doorbells. The idea of your Ring videos being shared with law enforcement can be unsettling for some.

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Removing your info from the web takes forever - Unless you do this

I’ve warned you about all the scummy sites that collect your personal details for years. I’ll never forget, not too long ago, when my son Ian asked about a house I lived at in my 20s. I couldn’t remember where it was.

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Did your tech devices make the worst-for-privacy list?

Mozilla, the folks behind Firefox, has another big project I keep an eye on. Its Privacy Not Included buyer’s guide. The latest way to measure digital privacy is its Annual Consumer Creep-O-Meter

It takes a hard look at the most popular consumer tech devices and assesses the good, the bad and the downright ugly. Mozilla uses a scale from one to 100, with 100 being the worst. 

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